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What does it mean to be WELL?

Living well…what the heck does it mean to live well?


Wellness: the current buzzword that you can’t avoid. Everywhere you look, someone is telling you how to improve this or that in the name of wellness!

What I’ve come to learn is that wellness is both subjective and objective. It’s both fluid and static. It can mean one thing to me and another thing to you.

Since you’re here, let me provide some awareness about what wellness means to me. I will break down the 6 areas of wellness I focus and teach others to focus on, what each area is composed of, and a few ways to improve each specific area. Sound good? Great!

What does it mean to be well?

Let’s begin with the definition of wellness (my personal definition): the practice of moving towards a state of self-actualization as we make decisions to become healthier, happier, and purposeful versions of ourselves. Simple enough. Let’s dig into each area.



This area pertains to how you live. What you do (career). The health of your relationships. Our social networks and our philosophy regarding life. It is the area that highlights the “visual” of what our life looks and feels like on a daily basis.


This area pertains to our state of mind. Our patterns of thinking. Our level of mental resiliency. It deals with the mindset and the level of control that we feel we have over our lives.


This area pertains to how we feel and our level of awareness of our feelings. This area influences our level of control over our feelings as well as our feelings of connectedness to our environment and others.


This area pertains to the care and management of the human spirit. This area could impact our morals, values, level of spiritual/religious guidance and our understanding of the meaning of our lives.


This area pertains to the state of our physical health. Our physical health impacts the level of functioning within our body. It deals with the way we provide nutrition to our bodies, the presence (or lack thereof) of disease in our body, our sexual health and the way we use our bodies to live.


This area pertains to the management of our fiscal resources. Our financial health impacts our ability to tend to our current and ongoing financial obligations as well as our ability to sustain financial emergencies or setbacks. It deals with how prepared, or not, we are to take care of our needs as well as have the opportunity to make choices that allow us to enjoy life.

Why is this even important?

If you find value in self-improvement like I do, taking steps to improve your state of wellness can have multitudinous effects, the most important being improving the quality of your life. An improved quality of life helps you live fully as I believe we were intended to live and ultimately created for. Awareness of each individual area allows us to assess where, and if, we need to make changes to improve. Additionally, all areas of wellness interact with one another, so changes in one area inevitably elicit changes among the other areas.

A few ways we can improve

As mentioned above, taking steps to improve your state of wellness can positively improve the quality of your life. Making the decision to improve is one that does not need to be complicated! I know with everything that we deal with these days, adding more to the plate could sound a bit overwhelming. It can be as simple as committing to 1-2 actions that may have the greatest impact across multiple areas. Start small–pick one action that you can realistically commit to and make that a habit before make any additional changes. The goal is to start where you are and improve from there. Listed below are several actionable items in each area that can help get you started!

Lifestyle Wellness

  • Making time for the things that get you excited.
  • Network within your professional organization by attending events and/or conferences to expand your reach.
  • Make plans with friend you haven’t seen in awhile.
  • Shut down the amount of time you engage on social media–engage face to face!
  • Seek out and engage in healthy, positive relationships, both platonic and romantic.


Mental/Psychological Wellness

  • Learn time-management skills. Make a schedule you can stick to for classes, studying, work, exercise, running errands, appointments and all other things that you do.
  • Challenge yourself to try something new.
  • Seek out and read a book on a topic that interests you, just for fun!
  • Learn to prioritize the tasks that are necessary and pertinent to make sure you are hitting on the things that need to be addressed first.
  • Play games (word games, critical thinking, etc.,) that stimulate you mentally


  • Set limits, boundaries and know what you are able to handle at any given time. Say “NO” when necessary and stand behind it.
  • Realize that you cannot do everything, all the time. Prioritize what’s most important in the present moment.
  • Practice positive self-talk and give yourself a break. Watch the language that you use and be kind towards yourself.
  • Find a healthy way to manage stress. Stress is inevitable, but don’t wait until it reaches critical mass before you intervene.
  • Seek out and get help from a counselor or therapist if you feel overwhelmed with your emotions and/or your ability to cope with them. Don’t allow continuous ill feelings to fester.


  • Meditate, engage in prayer, or any spiritual practice that you find helps you become more grounded.
  • Find a yoga class online or locally to connect with other likeminded spiritual wellness seekers!
  • Practice gratitude. Keep a daily journal and daily list three things that you are grateful.
  • Practice mindfulness. Make sure you are present when you are in different spaces with people, even yourself. Make a concerted effort to focus on what is happening now.
  • Give your time to a worthy cause by giving back to those less fortunate.


  • Engage in fun, purposeful movement to get some sweat going! Join a gym, attend a class, or find a video online to help you get moving.
  • Try to cook a new healthy recipe that you haven’t tried before! Use vegetables that you may be unfamiliar with.
  • Practice mindfulness while eating. Eat slowly, and pay attention to how your body feels as you eat.
  • Take time daily to stretch! Long, strong muscles help you with fluid movement, flexibility and keeps you from feeling stiff and rigid.
  • Get your rest. We often have too many tasks that we put on our plate daily, but without sound rest, we can’t even begin to handle the tasks at our fullest capacity without nightly rejuvenation.


  • Develop a budget and stick to it! It may be challenging at first, but once you see where your money goes each month, you are better able to make adjustments that are consistent with your financial goals.
  • Visit financial websites to assist with a variety of financial concerns, tips, services:






  • Put your savings on auto-draft. Don’t give yourself a chance to spend money you should be saving. Start small (5%) and eventually increase the amount that you are able to save as you improve your financial wellness.
  • Downsize and reduce accumulation of materials things that are not necessary. Identify what your “needs” are versus your “wants.” Be clear of what falls into each of these categories.
  • To curb impulse purchases, give yourself time to decide if it’s something that you really need or want. If 1-2 days later you feel that the purchase is a worthy one, feel confident in your decision.


What we should always be mindful of is that living well is something that we practice forever! Wellness is not a place or destination to arrive at, it’s a journey as well as a practice to implement for the length of our days. Our wellness journey is ours and ours only and should not be compared to others. Our situations will affect us and be unique to us, as we are individually different! Focus on the areas that may have the greatest impact, take action in these areas, and then continue to work on other areas as progress is made. There is no such thing as perfection when it comes to wellness, so do not set your sights on this un-achievable goal. Take intentional action and begin to improve the quality of your life, one day at a time!